4 Things That Hold You Back from Success4事情，阻礙了你的成功 @ 愛薇塔樂學英文

4 Things That Hold You Back from Success4事情，阻礙了你的成功

Imagine you are walking down a street in your local neighborhood. Suddenly, your eye catches a breat

Imagine you are walking down a street in your local neighborhood. Suddenly, your eye catches abreathtakingly beautiful rose garden on your right. It is vibrant, bursting with a variety of bright colors, andemits a heavenly scent. You notice how beautifully manicured it is, with bright, colorful roses lining thegarden and yellow sunflowers poking their heads out in the back.

But then, suddenly, your attention gets drawn to the garden directly next to this. It is an awful sight,completely overgrown and wild. The garden is dull and full of weeds with many ‘unwanted plants’ that havegrown. It looks sad and miserable.

Life is very much like a garden. Each garden looks very different and every garden holds within it unlimitedpotential. What have you been sowing in your garden? What are the results you have reaped?

Perhaps you have been trying your best to create your ‘dream’ garden but you are just not seeing theresults you want. Is there too much sun, too much water or too much shade? Getting a successful garden togrow, is not easy and you may be doing a few things that are holding you back from having success.

1. The law of weeds
What are you planting exactly? If you don’t plant flowers, weeds will grow for sure. In other words, if yourthoughts and actions are not geared towards success, they will bring you results you don’t want.

Identify the weeds in your garden and spots the wild shrubs that are strangling the roses from growing.Every bad habit, limiting thought or action, does not only hold you back from success, but reinforces whatyou are not happy with, making it harder to change each time.

2. A half-grown garden
What will your garden look like if you only spend a few hours a week gardening? Some roses might growhere and there, but it will most likely be teetering between success or failure. Most people want to havemore success in life but they don’t want to actually work for it. You can see it every day, people put comfortbefore results and that is definitely going to hold you back.

You also have to do some things you don’t like and no half jobs. You are going to have to prep the soil, getyour hands dirty, etc. Put results before comfort, success is not about staying in your comfort zone.

3. Always digging up your seeds
You need to be patient to see the results you want and to be successful. When you plant a flower, youbelieve and trust that it will grow. You don’t dig it up every day to see how much it has grown. Sometimes wedon’t give ourselves enough time to produce the results we really want or we half halfheartedly trysomething and we give up too easily. We live in a world where instant gratification is possible and weassume this means every area of life. Patience could be your missing link to success.

4. Every flower is different
Every flower is different, unique and special in its own way. Just like you. Most people struggle to havesuccess in an area because they are too influenced by outsiders. Do you feel torn between doing what youwant and what others say you ‘should’ or ‘need’ to do; you must look, act and talk a certain way to besuccessful. Ironically, it is when we don’t give ourselves permission to be ourselves completely that weactually fail.

You cannot separate who you are from the success you achieve and you need to give yourself permissionto do it ‘your way’, you already know what is right for you. You need to remain impartial sometimes to otherpeople’s words and actions and how much you allow them to influence your success.

Lastly, if you really feel that you have been spending hours gardening, and you have applied what you havelearnt, but your garden is still not growing, how can you identify why your garden is struggling?

It isn’t easy to see your blind spots, so asking yourself similar questions to these could be your best nextstep

*　If you viewed things from another person’s point of view, what new information would that perspectivegive you?
*　How do you normally sabotage or hold yourself back – and what will you do differently this time?
*　What might you have to give up in order to be more successful?

We tend to focus more often on what is going wrong, rather than what is going right and sometimes weforget our small successes. Remember that success is a journey, not a destination!

To your success!

想像一下，你是走在街上在當地居委會。突然間，你的眼睛捕捉一個breat

想像您有步行向下一街頭在您的當地鄰里。突然，您的眼漁獲一讓人讚歎美麗玫瑰花園上您的右邊。它是充滿活力，爆破同一品種的光明顏色，和發射一天上香味。您通知如何精美修剪它是，同光明，豐富多彩玫瑰襯裡該花園和黃色向日葵戳他們的頭出在該後面。

但然後，突然，您的關注得到繪製至該花園直下一個至這。它是一個可怕視力，全然發育過度的和野。該花園是平淡和滿的雜草同許多 “無用植物“ 那有長大的。它容貌傷心和慘。

生活是很多喜歡一花園。每花園容貌很不同和一切花園持有內它無限潛力。什麼有您一直播種在您的花園？什麼有該結果您有收穫？

也許您有一直嘗試您的最好的至創建您的 “夢想“ 花園但您有剛不看該結果您想。是那裡太多太陽，太多水或太多陰？獲取一成功花園至增長，是不易和您可是幹一少數事那有保持您後面從有成功。

1。該法的雜草
什麼有您種植究竟？如果您不要“噸廠花卉，雜草將增長為肯定。在其他話，如果您的想法和行動有不面向朝成功，他們將帶來您結果您不要“噸想。

鑑定該雜草在您的花園和斑點該野灌木那有絞殺該玫瑰從成長。一切壞習慣，限制思想或行動，不不只持有您後面從成功，但強化什麼您有不快樂同，製造它更難至變化每時間。

2。一 半成年 花園
什麼將您的花園看喜歡如果您只花一少數小時一週園藝？一些玫瑰威力增長這裡和那裡，但它將最容易是搖搖欲墜之間成功或失敗。最人想至有更多成功在生活但他們不要“噸想至其實工作為它。您可以看它一切日，人放安慰前結果和那是無疑去至持有您後面。

您還有至做一些事您不要“噸喜歡和無半職位。您有去至有至預習該土壤，得到您的手臟，等。放結果前安慰，成功是不關於住在您的安慰區。

3。總是挖向上您的種子
您需要至是病人至看該結果您想和至是成功。何時您廠一花，您相信和信任那它將增長。您不要“噸挖它向上一切日至看如何多它有長大的。有時我們不要“噸給我們自己夠了時間至生產該結果我們真想或我們半半心半意嘗試某物和我們給向上太容易。我們生活在一世界哪裡瞬間滿足是可能和我們假設這手段一切區域的生活。忍耐可以是您的想念鏈接至成功。

4。一切花是不同
一切花是不同，獨特和特別在其自己的方法。剛喜歡您。最人鬥爭至有成功在一個區域因為他們有太影響通過外人。做您感覺撕裂之間幹什麼您想和什麼他人說您 “應“ 或 “需要“ 至做; 您必須看，法案和談話一某些方法至是成功。具有諷刺意味的，它是何時我們不要“噸給我們自己允許至是我們自己全然那我們其實失敗。